Final Essay #2

What is Feminism and how has it affected me?

When I first came into class, I had no idea what this “feminism” was, is, does or even meant. Some people say, “Feminism is a movement to end sexism, sexist exploitation and oppression,” (hooks-Intro) while others say it is, “the doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men.” (dictionary) Also, we have those who believe that American Feminists are trying to comfort “the sister nations in a ‘Big Sister’ type of way and they need to know the whole story before getting involved.” (Darraj) So, how about the Asian feminism, which is described with “five areas of focus: diaspora; memory; home; identity; and cultural trauma.” (Ryan) Is this feminism, in general? And last, but certainly not least, should I believe what the Black Women’s studies objective believes? There are “Four issues for the consideration of politics in Black Women’s Studies: 1) The general political situation of Afro-American women and the bearing this has had upon the implementation of Black Women’s Studies; 2) The relationship of Black women’s studies to Black feminist politics and the Black feminist movement; 3) The necessity for Black women’s studies to be feminist, radical and analytical; 4) The need for teachers of Black women’s studies to be aware of our problematic political positions in the academy and of the potentially antagonistic conditions under which we must work.” (Hull) So, really, what is feminism? I have always been the difficult one who needs facts before making a statement, so let’s take it back, way back.
Basically, feminism has developed due to past events, circumstances and situations. So, it is only right for a beginner, like myself, to find out all of this history. As I researched, I found out there are three waves of Feminism. The First Wave “spans from the 19th Century to the early twentieth century.”(Associated) Being the analytical person that I am I went into depth on the research of this “First Wave.” Here is some of the notes I found:

“Feminism began in the United Kingdom and the United States. The main focus was on de jure inequalities or officially mandated inequalities. [A few people considered] as feminists: Susan B. Anthony, Olympia Brown and Helen Pitts. Most people consider the first wave to have ended when the 19th Amendment to the United States Constitution was passed granting women the right to vote. Also, the First Wave included reforms in education, in the work place and professions, and in healthcare.”(Associated)

So, of course the first thing I noticed was that there is a lot of usage of the number nineteen, which is beside the point, but I thought it was interesting. Also, how does this First Wave help me come to a conclusion on my opinion of Feminism? I believe that with any and everything, we all should know the beginning, like where it started. The First Wave shows the struggle and the grand outcome. Next, we have the Second Wave. One person said, “Each wave is connected and dependent on the other’s history.” (Associated) Eagerly, I researched the Second Wave:

This is a “period of feminism beginning in the early 1960’s and extending through the late 1980’s. The main focus was de facto inequalities or unofficial inequalities, also felt that de jure and de facto inequalities were inextricably linked issues that needed to be addressed together if there was going to be any hope of change. This wave encouraged women to understand aspects of their personal lives and deeply politicized, and reflective of a sexists’ structure of power. The Key Word of this wave was education of women and of men. There were several major moments: The Feminine Mystique, Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 passed, Formation of National Organization for Women and the rise of radical feminism during the 1970’s. (just to name a few) Some of the Key Players: Bella Azbug, Jo Freeman and Ann Simonton. Lastly, there was an undeniable idea that the Second Wave failed.”(Associated)

I took from the Second wave that they were focused on bringing the First Wave’s ideas in with their own, which shows Unity. And also, it was not just about women. They were fighting for men, also. As far as the education, they saw that everyone deserved to be equal in that area. This reminded me of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. He not only fought for African Americans, but for everyone’s equal rights. So, that was interesting how those were connected in that aspect. Also, the “undeniable idea that the Second wave failed,” hit me hard. I am thinking, why would they continue if they knew they already failed? This gave me hope and understanding of how strong these ladies were. I just think of my generation. I believe that if we were faced with the same problem, there might have not been any waves, which is really sad, but extremely true. So, this leads to the last one, the Third Wave.

“It began in the early 1990’s and is continuing today. This wave was based as a response to the ‘believed’ failure of the Second Wave. It is also believed that this wave was in response to the backlash against initiatives and movements that were unexpectedly created by the second wave. Some of the important people were Judith Butler, Betty Dodson and Molly Yard.”(Associated)

Honestly, I did not take anything from the Third Wave. All I know is that Feminists just got back up and started kicking again.
After reviewing all of my research and hard work, I believe that Feminism is the fight for equal rights, not just women’s rights, but equal rights for everyone. The ladies from the past would probably be content with the movement’s progress, today, but there are more issues raised, that need to be addressed. Yes, being able to vote was important and still is taking affect, today, but what about equal pay? What about motherly rights? This is America, the land of the free, but does that just stand for men? The men would not be here if it was not for the women. It is time to take a stand.
Race plays a very big part in this. I believe that if all the women that were fighting for women’s rights, were white, then maybe the progress would be greater. I know that is biased thinking, but that is reality. hooks said it best at the beginning of her tenth chapter:

“No intervention changed the face of American feminism more than the demand that feminist thinkers acknowledge the reality of race and racism. All white women in this nation know that their status is different from that of black women/women of color…All white women in this nation know that whiteness is a privileged category. The fact that white females may choose to repress or deny this knowledge does not mean they are ignorant: it means that they are in denial.” (hooks, Chapter 10)

Everyone knows that white women have everything. They are on the televisions, 24/7, they are the lead roles and they never die first in the movies. Maybe women’s rights are not as important as rights among race. I know that is probably not the right attitude to have, but how can we focus on “Operation: women’s rights” with a “BUT” in the midst of the operation? Women need to have equal rights, but that is equal rights for Black and white women. There should not be that separation. When we can stand up and say we need equal rights for everyone, black, white, female, male, etc. then and only then, will America be in agreement with equality, as a whole.
I found this article interesting. It is explaining feminism in a way, I never thought about it. So, I wanted to include this conclusion from www.associatedcontent.com :

“In conclusion, feminism is not some simple thing that people can generalize, like it is just an excuse for women to kick men in the balls, and not take care of themselves, or that men and women must be equal at all costs. Feminism is a movement, which has been incredibly important to the success and failures of this country and has been a necessary journey for the women in our country to travel upon so that they can discover and create their own unique place in society.” (Associated)

And that is the end of my definition of feminism.
So, I believe that I am not a feminist because of my race. I believe that women’s rights are important, but I am an African American female in a White male dominated society. People see me as African American before they see me as a female. Many people make comments, such as, “Oh, there are black people at OU?” or “Black people struggle at OU and never graduate.” I do not want to be a statistic. I want to be above average. I want to make it out of Oklahoma, out of OU, out of this state of mind. Big dreams are at the top of priorities and I believe God has something in store for me. I just know it. And if I had to choose between race and gender, race would be at the top. I am not racist, no that is not the point. I love everyone! It is just that my ancestors fought for me to be able to get a grand education and to do something with my life. My motivation everyday is from the fact that my African American individuals wanted me to have a better future. Some died for me to be able to walk down the street, some were thrown into jail for me to be able to sit in this University and some even were beaten and spit on just for me to live today. I can not and will not let them down. Once again, Women’s rights are amazing. Go Women! But I have other things that make a difference in my life. I will make it. I will graduate. I want to be able to give back to my hometown and even uplift a Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Charity by giving back to them. This is my mission. I am all about my business and I will not give up. I just can not. It is my time and it starts now!

Works cited:

Darraj, Susan Muaddi. Arab Feminism. 2002 Monthly Review Foundation, Inc.

hooks, bell. Feminism is for Everybody. Cambridge, MA. South End Press. Introduction.

hooks, bell. Feminism is for Everybody. Cambridge, MA. South End Press. Chapter 10.

Hull, Gloria T. All the Women are White, All the Blacks are Men, But Some of Us are Brave.

The Feminist Press. 1982.

Ryan, Michael.Asian Feminism.2008.

www.associatedcontent.com/article/392800/

www.dictionary.com/Feminism

Final Essay #1

Final Essay #1

What is the [REAL] Beauty Myth?

“A personal dialogue on the Beauty Myth from the African American Female Point of View”

Many individuals believe that the “Beauty Myth” is all about the appearance and comparisons to other people. The focus for the majority is on the physical attributes; facial, body figure, etc. No one takes the time to think that maybe Beauty has more to it. When I first thought about Beauty, I did not know what my thoughts were. I know that does not make any sense, but honestly, I could not possibly put into words what I felt beauty was. The Media portrays Beauty as being a certain size or having a certain length of hair. This became personal to me once I hit college. Just like every average college freshman, I put on a little weight. I started working out harder and that made me more tired during class. So, then I tried the “Water Diet” and I drank water for two weeks straight. Yes, I lost about twenty pounds, but it was not healthy. I became weak in class and could barely stay attentive. So, I started eating again, but this time around I gained more than before. Finally, I gave up trying to please the media and just continued to eat. I ate because I was depressed, stressed, tired, happy, etc. I became an “eating machine.” And no, that was not healthy either. So, here I am at age twenty, forty pounds heavier than two years ago, miserable, in the hospital every two to four weeks due to exhaustion one day and an eating disorder the next. I prayed about it, but honestly, I do not know where to go with this situation. In turn, I cut my hair as a “new” look to give people something else to focus on rather than my weight. Now, people criticize me because I do not have the long tresses like Gabrielle Union or because I do not wear weave like the next upcoming star. How do I let people know this is who I am without stepping out of the boundaries of the Beauty Myth? Better yet, do I need to change myself so that my image falls under the rules of the Beauty Myth? Is there more to Beauty, than just big boobs, big booty, skinny waist, long slender legs and long hair?According to Mary Pipher’s excerpt, “Reviving Ophelia: Saving the selves of Adolescent Girls,” this imagery of the “perfect female appearance” starts young.

“In early adolescence, studies show that girls’ IQ scores drop and their math and science scores plummet. They lose their resiliency and optimism and become less curious and inclined to take risks. They lose their assertive, energetic and “tomboyish” personalities and become more deferential, self-critical and depressed. They report great unhappiness with their own bodies.”(Pipher)

So, maybe this has a lot to do with puberty, but I believe that it also has a lot to do with the typical “Beauty Myth.” When young ladies are just trying to find out what is happening with their bodies, they turn on the television and see bikini models with curves and abs to die for. Long slender legs and “skinniness” is everywhere. How is a young girl suppose to react to this type of behavior? Parents should not have to turn the channel every time one of the “Xenadrine” or “Hydroxy Cut” commercials come on. Young ladies should grow up with a free imagination as much as boys. I guess that is why most believe that girls mature faster than boys. Girls do not have the chance to be young. They have to grow up before their time. They have to be a certain way. For example, Ophelia’s story in Shakespeare’s Hamlet,

“[portrays] the destructive forces that affect young women. As a girl, Ophelia is happy and free, but with adolescence she loses herself. When she falls in love with Hamlet,she lives only for his approval. She has no inner direction; rather she struggles to meet the demands of Hamlet and her father. Her value is determined utterly by their approval. Ophelia is torn apart by her efforts to please.”(Pipher)

And I feel that young ladies do not need this pressure at a young age. Yes, “Daddy’s Girl” always wants to please her Dad and make him happy, but some times that has to be pushed aside to please oneself. Maybe this is selfish, but I guarantee that if young ladies stop focusing on pleasing everyone else around them, they would have a better understanding of themselves and who they need to be. Once again, this becomes a personal matter for me. I was raised in a single mother household. So, yes it was hard, but I never focused on how hard it was for mom. I always ALWAYS wanted to please Daddy. I did not know my Dad. My beliefs were that if I made good grades and was the perfect child, maybe, just maybe, he will want to be a part of my life. When I graduated from High School, I was the happiest person. Not because I graduated Valedictorian, not because I spoke, but I was happy because my Dad was there. Yes, it made him pay attention to me for that one night, but after that, it went right on back to the same thing. Now, while in college, I am struggling with what I want in life. I do not know if I want to pursue Engineering, any more. I do not know what I want to do with my life. This is a learning experience for me. I had to learn the hard way, but all in all, young ladies need to read about these different experiences; my personal experience with growing up, Ophelia’s personal experience and even other young ladies’ experiences. I believe that every one can learn from each other’s mistakes, successes, journeys, routes and life, in general.So, back to this “Beauty Myth.” All young ladies want to be a certain way, without knowing who they are. They strive to be the “Ideal” girlfriend, sister and even wife (when that time comes). I believe Pipher put it best:

“Girls know they are losing themselves. Wholeness is shattered by the chaos of adolescence. [Girls] are sensitive and tenderhearted, mean and competitive, superficial and idealistic. They are confident in the morning and overwhelmed by anxiety by nightfall…They try on new roles every week---this week the good student, next week the delinquent and the next, the artist. And they expect their families to keep up with these changes…Everything is changing---body shape, hormones, skin and hair. Calmness is replaced by anxiety. Their way of thinking is changing. Far below the surface they are struggling with the most basic of human questions: What is my place in the universe, what is my meaning?” (Pipher)

So, what can the young ladies possibly think Beauty is? The question still is alive and kicking, “What is Beauty?” Does it change with race? Now, with every theme, situation, symbol, etc, race plays a part. There are certain things that happen only to white people, certain things that happen only to black people, etc. So, how does this Beauty show itself among race? Through research and readings, I have my own take on the portrayal of Beauty within race: White young ladies believe they have to be a “stick” in order to be a part of the societal image of beauty. Excuse me, the majority of this audience. Black young ladies believe they have to be light skin, small in the waist, thick in the hips and have long hair down their backs. Excuse me, the majority of this audience. And so on. The reason my focus is on White female beauty and Black female beauty is because there is a lot of comparisons portrayed in the media between these two. I am not biased in any which way. I am just speaking the obvious. So, what I am trying to make a point of is that Beauty is deeper than just the outside. I believe that Beauty has a lot to do with your race, how you carry yourself, the way you present yourself and the way you treat others. So, I believe that Peggy McIntosh presented a view of Beauty with her passage, “Unpacking the Invisible Backpack.” I just wanted to share a little bit, so you all can see where I am coming from:

“As far as I can see, my African American co-worker, friends and acquaintances with whom I come into daily or frequent contact in this particular time, place and line of work cannot count on most of these conditions.
1. I can if I wish arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.
2. if I should need to move, I can be pretty sure of renting or purchasing housing in an area which I can afford and in which I would want to live.
3. I can be pretty sure that my neighbors in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me.
4. I can go shopping alone most of the time, pretty well assured that I will not be followed or harassed.” (McIntosh)

So, does the amount of power or control you have, define Beauty? Does my skin color have an affect on my job, my appearance or my networking with individuals? These questions just keep coming. So, let’s look into the gender relations of the topic. Women’s Beauty compared to Men’s Beauty. Women are seen as fragile, weak, small, etc, while Men are seen as big, muscular and dominant. The perfect example is the seven comparisons from Jessica Valenti’s “He’s a Stud, She’s a Slut and 49 Other Double Standards Every Woman Should Know:”

“He’s a Hero, She’s a Damsel.
He’s gonna be a Success, She’s gonna be a Stay-At-Home Mom.
He’s tough, She’s a tomboy.
He’s the boss, She’s a Bitch.
He’s getting an education, She’s getting in his way.
He’s funny, She’s annoying.” (Valenti)

Why should women be conformed to the men’s ideal image of the woman? This is not fair at all. This is even announced in Naomi Wolf’s “Beauty Myth,” when the title says, “How Images of Beauty are Used Against Women.” Why are we allowing men to take over and tell us what we need to look like. From my point of view, every one should be comfortable in their own skin. I absolutely love men. I do not have anything against them. It is just that, I am tired of seeing women take the back seat.Currently, I am an advocate for state seminars called, “My Black is Beautiful.” I love being a part of this movement because for so long, black women were seen as the quiet, yet loud individual or soft, yet hard core young lady. I do not like the stereotypes of Black women. Why do black women have to be a certain way? Either they have to be the extreme, like New York or Saaphyri, or very quiet and conservative, like Sanaa Lathan or Tamela Mann. This is tearing down the black community. And the reason I believe the downfall of the Black women is hurting the black community is because in the past, the only person that kept the family together was Big Mama. So, if Big Mama is worried about her weight, appearance, etc, when does she have time for the family? Everyone’s priorities are out of “wack.” I believe Wolf puts it as:

“The Beauty Myth tells a story: The quality called ‘beauty’ objectively and universally exists. Women must want to embody it and men must want to possess women who embody it. This situation is necessary and natural because it is biological, sexual and evolutionary: Strong men battle for beautiful women and beautiful women are more reproductively successful.” (Wolf)

Beauty is a sad excuse to be a Woman, nowadays. Everyone has an opinion on how this matter should be handled, but no one puts anything into action.

“Understanding that females could never be liberated if we did not develop healthy self-esteem and self-love feminist thinkers went directly to the heart of the matter---critically examining how we feel and think about our bodies and offering constructive strategies for change.”(hooks)

Once again, “constructive strategies for change [were offered],” but I honestly, do not see anything coming from it. This is a matter that all women across the United States of America, should take into their own hands. If we raise daughters to be proud of who they are instead of daughters who worry about a diet at age twelve, we would have a more productive society. I believe that our purpose in life has nothing to do with Beauty and our appearance. Yes, showers are a requirement, but seriously, Beauty can only go so far. Finding out what God wants us to do in life, where He wants us to be in ten years, what people He wants us to influence, etc, is what fulfills our hearts. We have to turn to each other and get rid of these Video Models, supermodels and Models of the “Real” woman in order to move forward in life. It is time to stand up and it will start with me. My Black is Beautiful and I will gladly show my beauty without anyone’s approval!

Works Cited:

hooks, Bell. Feminism is For Everybody.Cambridge, MA: South End Press. Chapter 6, Page 31

McIntosh, Peggy. Unpacking the Invisible Backpack. 1989

Pipher, Mary. Reviving Ophelia. New York: G.P. Putmans Sons.

Valenti, Jessica. He's A Stud, She's a Slut. Seal Press

Wolf, Naomi. The Beauty Myth, How Images of Beauty are Used Against Women. 1991.
AnchorBooks. Double Day.

Politics and Activism

As I have journeyed through these 20 years and 4 months, I have realized that my calling or mission has a lot to do with children. I grew up in a small town and I know the struggle of being a young African American female in a predominantly white school and I just want to tell my story to the next generation. I want to help them become more aware of the "better" things in life. I love my hometown, but the disadvantages outweigh everything there. So, when I thought of my focus for this essay, I thought of President Barack Obama. One of his main focuses is on Education and not just any education, but education in the "public" schools. He knows of the struggle and hardship, the disadvantages and unwelcomed issues and the minority opinion that is never taken seriously. I like how he is taking care of the problem.
I read an article the other day titled, "Stimulus Dollars to be Released for Schools." It talked about how his plan for public education funding is double of what Bush's was. He released some money to the schools here, recently. I like how he wants to build up the education system in all areas. Everyone deserves the same education! Here is a small excerpt from the article:
the administration wants to do more than save teachers' jobs. Obama wants to transform the federal government's role in education. His administration views the stimulus bill as a once-in-a-lifetime chance to put lasting reforms in place.

"The administration wants to do more than save teachers' jobs. Obama wants to transform the federal government's role in education. His administration views the stimulus bill as a once-in-a-lifetime chance to put lasting reforms in place. In their applications, states must show improvement in teacher quality, data systems, academic standards and tests and supporting struggling schools."

My future involvement with this plan has been put into action already. I am a part of the Summer Youth Program that keeps young people off of the streets in my hometown and geared more towards Education. I know that this is a small step towards the cause, but I know that if I can make a difference in just one young person's life, than my mission would not be in vain.

Reading Gender: Castellanos

Shirlanna Little
April 12, 2009
Women’s Studies
Professor Pendley

Reading Gender: The External Feminine
A lot of the gender perceptions, throughout Act I, were very surprising to me. Even with it being in the late ‘80’s, I would not have expected all of the events that were portrayed in this play. It was very interesting.

From the beginning, whenever the Salesperson was giving his “salespitch,” I could tell that he was using a lot of mannerisms to try and bring the woman, (Owner), more in touch with his product. His attitude with the Hairdresser was very inappropriate. I believe he treated her that way because of her gender and that, in turn, is terrible. The Hairdresser made great points. She was just trying to see what the Salesperson was selling and trying to get to the root of his “salespitch.” I feel that with the Owner showing off her more passive side to the Salesperson, he wanted to take advantage of that because women are seen as the weak, passive type. One other part in the beginning that bothered me was when he asked the Hairdresser for Tea. Is she suppose to be a maid at the Hair Salon? Is brewing Tea and running errands part of her job description? I think I missed that part of the story. The Salesperson put more focus on getting the Hairdresser away from his conversation with the Owner than actually selling the project, himself. So, I questioned if the Salesperson saw that the Hairdresser was out of her element?

As I read on through the Act, I was just surprised at the treatment of the females throughout. Also, I wanted to touch on the dream of Lupita. As she dreamed of her honeymoon, her marriage, etc., once again, she, as the woman, was seen as passive and very weak. Her husband, Juan, asked questions and demanded answers, cheated and expected Lupita to be submissive in every way. So, the story portrays that Lupita was not any bit of successful or independent until Juan parted ways. My question was, does a man really have to be dead or non-existent in women’s lives in order for women to actually appreciate the independence God has given them? That was deep, but something that needs to be pondered. Society today has the majority believing that women are in need of a man to keep them in line. Yes, the Bible says that “he who finds a wife, finds a good thing” and a “man shall love his wife as Christ loves the church,” but there has to be a happy “medium” there. I am a Christian and I follow the plans laid out through the Bible for men, women and children. I understand how it is important for a man to actually be a man and take care of his household, but that does not mean that the woman is treated like she does not have an opinion. It is as if they interpret it in another context than for what it really is. In my opinion, Society needs to work on the perception of men and women. How should the “average” wife act towards her husband? This is the basic question that needs an answer. Castellanos wants the reader to think about these issues in a bigger script. We see actions of the individual everyday that may be sexist or gender challenged, but we keep our mouth closed and fall in line. So, if we looked at certain situations in a different light, will we actually have an opinion? I believe Castellanos is trying to teach a lesson through the writings of the play. Personally, it made me take a step back and see what I was doing wrong, as a woman, and see if I am being too passive or submissive to the leading man.

Castellanos, Rosario; “The External Feminine”; 1988

Globalization

The Non-governmental Organization that I came across was H.O.T.G.I.R.L.S, (Helping Our Teen Girls In Real Life Situations, Inc.) and it was very interesting. It is based in Atlanta. This Non-Profit Organization was founded by Dr. Carla Stokes on November 21, 2001 while she was in graduated school at the University of Michigan.

They described their commitment as follows:

"We are committed to defining what it means to be a 'hot girl ' for ourselves, while challenging sexualized and denigrating perceptions about black women and girls. In the words of the girls served by our program, "we're hot because we're on fire" (we are doing 'good in the hood' and promoting self-empowerment among marginalized girls of color....and we can't be stopped)."

I believe this organization is worth giving money to because of it's purpose. Here is an organization that is not trying to force a change in music or image of the African American young lady, but they are providing a different view or aspect of the "hip-hop" generation. In my opinon, they are giving these young ladies a chance to make a positive influence, not only on their own lives, but on other individuals, as well. I support this group, 100%. If you would like further information on this Organization, I encourage you to follow the link, below:

http://www.helpingourteengirls.org/about/ourname.htm

I believe this is a gender issue because if we need a specific group, just for young females to become young ladies, then something is wrong with the world we live in. It used to be that a "Community/village raises a child." I truly believed that. That's how my siblings and I grew up. I do know that this organization is a great step in a positive direction for young ladies and I support it in any way possible.

In Response to the readings, I wanted to comment on ONE statement that was enhanced throughout the chapter. "Privileged-class white women swiftly declared their "ownership" of the movement, placing working-class white women,poor white women and alll women of color in the position of followers." I believe this statement is true, but as I started thinking about it. When African Americans were mentioned they were referred to as "All Women of Color." Not the "working-class women of color" or the "poor Women of color," but ALL women of color. That just amazes me. There could have been anyone in that crowd that had the potential to maybe get the Women's Suffrage Movement going a little faster. You never know.I don't agree with many choices made, but I do understand it was a different time frame and different people. I just sometimes, sit back and wonder "What if?"

Ethnography Paper: Are white women more capable of being successful in the workplace compared to African Americans?

Why are black women “less likely” to succeed in business? Why are white women “more likely” to succeed in business? Are black women not as qualified as white women? What makes a black woman “qualified” to be a successful business woman? What makes a white woman “qualified” to be a successful business woman? Are the conditions for a black woman in business the same as for a white woman?

As I researched this dilemma, I came across an article, Women’s History Month 2009: Black women still fighting workplace racism by William Reed. Just with the title, I could tell that “black women are still fighting,” for not just racism, workplace racism. It is very prevalent in the world, today. I wanted to focus on black women vs. white women, (for a lack of better terms), in the workplace. Yes, we have other races, but the two main clashes in the workplace have to be black and white. I did question the validity of my thesis when it came to actually thinking out my issues, questions, direction with this essay. When I set up for the interview process, I included the questions under that topic, which were very hard to come by in this day and age.

I gathered information primarily through Google, Yahoo and other websites. I actually went to the library to look through the history books to help come up with the questions. I added a couple of interviews and equipped the essay with a participant observation.

Interviewees:
-64 year old, African American young lady

How do you feel about black women in the workplace?
I think it is good. They need to be there. They buy they shop in the store and I believe there needs to be “US” represented. There are too many white folks in there. Where we spend our money, we should be able to work. Not just white folks.

Do you believe that black women are qualified to be in the workplace?
Of course they are. They wouldn’t apply for the job if they didn’t think they could do it.

Are white women more qualified than black women to be in the workplace?
NO they are not. They may know a lot more with white bosses and community. They have an “up” on the process, already. They know a lot more whites who have the job that people need. And so we have to go and get the jobs the hard way.

Do you believe there is a time when there is too many black women in a workplace?
No, you can never have too many blacks in the workplace. They never get that chance. They have to have more whites than blacks. They believe white women have more concern for a job than black women.

Do you want to see more black women in the workplace?
Sure, there should be more black people than I see in a workplace. They should be equally dispersed.

Participant Observation:
I observed two individuals; (Subject A) 50 year old African American young lady working in retail and (Subject B) 25 year old White young lady working in retail. I wanted to focus on other mannerisms and actions portrayed by customers/co-workers/management. As I watched, Subject A I noticed that a lot of customers shied away from her register. Some would look for a sale’s associates, see her and go in the opposite direction. Co-Workers were extremely nice to her. I know this has a lot to do with her experience and her age. It is seen as “being respectful”! Now, Subject B, ironically, is the manager over the department Subject A is a part of. She is very rude, obnoxious and not understanding at all. No, I am not passing judgment. I actually used to work under her and so, this is “first-hand” experience. When she walks, she carries herself in an uptight, “stuck-up” manner. This observation, honestly, can not be taken advantage of. This is just one observation. In my opinion, I believe I would have to conduct a lot more observations to support my thesis.
Theorists have said that the “typical” black woman has an attitude and is very rude, while on the other hand, the “typical” white woman has a very quiet demeanor and shy at the same time. The truth found in this case, is that many people have opinions on who is suppose to act what way, but they only thing to do is actually go into a deep research and find the truth. Anthropologists and Sociologists can get more information about this issue on the website,
http://www.sfbayview.com/2009/women%E2%80%99s-history-month-2009-black-women-still-fighting-workplace-racism/

Work

In Belkin's article, "Opt Out," I can see how they came to the conclusion that once women get into the work force and decide to have children, they take a "back-seat" to their jobs. But when you get more in depth with the reading and see that the study was only focused on the elite white women, you get a different understanding. What about the black woman who has to work 2 jobs just to put food on the table and clothes on her children's back or even the black woman who has to give her child up for adoption just so the child will not grow up in her environment and so they both can survive? There are a LOT of different scenarios for everyone, so there is no way to come up with a thesis based on just one portion. It is not ethical.

I believe the responses made to this article were similar to my reaction to the article. It's time to look at America, as a whole and not just the elite white individual as the leading role.

I have experience a black single-mother household. Father was on drugs and we had to move in with my grandmother when I was 5 years old. My mother worked at Wal-Mart ALL day for at least 5 years, until she got a job as a teacher at our local Middle School. I remember waiting up all night on my mom to get home, just so she can tuck my siblings and I into bed. Sometimes, she wouldn't make it in until late and I was the one who had to tuck them in at night. So, no this country girl has not had it easy. Then, when I was 12 or 13, my mom took in 3 of my cousins when their mother passed away. So, now there is a total of 6 kids to one adult. You want to talk about hard times? I wrote the book.

In response to the readings, "Women at Work" is a grand thing! I encourage any and all women to work and not just work, move up in whatever position you are in. Yes, the male can be the head of the household or the dominant figure in society' eyes, but we do not have to sit at the house and cook and clean all day. The world has changed and it is time to step up and express yourself. I am not saying you should neglect your duties at the household, just find a medium and live life to the fullest.